In San Francisco, views on AI become a dating criterion
What happened
Helen Li's reporting for The Verge, published Nov 7, finds San Francisco daters weighing attitudes toward AI when choosing partners. Disagreements cover work ethics, income appeal and plans to have children. Some refuse to date AI users; others prefer AI engineers for the pay. Some AI safety workers struggle to plan a family over future risk. One software engineer uses an AI agent to filter Hinge matches, send messages and set up dates, and the other person does not know.
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- The Verge · AIAI is the new dating dealbreaker
旧金山的约会者正把对 AI 的态度纳入择偶条件，分歧涉及职业伦理、收入吸引力和生育规划。Helen Li 的实地采访发现，有人明确拒绝与 AI 使用者约会，也有人因 AI 行业的收入前景偏好 AI 工程师，部分 AI 安全从业者则因未来风险担忧难以规划家庭生活。一名软件工程师已用 AI 智能体代为筛选 Hinge 用户、发送消息并安排线下约会，对方并不知道自己在与 AI 交流。
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